1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)
2). Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses toyour family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other’s keeper.(Eph 5v12)
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don’t have a happy home.(Prov 15v13)
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you’ve no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband’s friends because you don’t like them, the person who’s supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24)
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband’s sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over theat duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed ones) (SS 7v12)
11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.(SS 5v9)
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.(Prov 31v23)
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don’t do that.(Eph 4v31)
14). Don’t forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.(Prov 12v4)
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.( 1 Sam25v3)
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don’t waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.(Luke 21v16)
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don’t forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home. (Gal 6v9)
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.(Gal 6v10)
21). Don’t be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.(Eph 4v29)
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn’t even know that her body needs a bath.(Prov 24v27)(Prov 20v13)
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food. (Prov 31v14)
24). Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.(Luke 11v3)
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. (Prov 31v11)
26). Don’t associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.(Prov 22v14)
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.(Heb 13v4)
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.(Prov 22v6)
29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason. (Prov 31v28)
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family(1 Thess 5v17)

Have a lovely day….. God bless u all.

Paul’s First Missionary Journey (AD 47-49) simplified


  1. Starts from Antioch (Acts 13:1-3)

Paul, Berneba & Mark started from here

  1. Salamis (Acts 13:4)

Eastern Port of Cyprus

  1. Paphos (Acts 13:6)

Roman Captial of Cyprus – Western Port)

  1. Pera in Pamphylia (Acts 13:13)

From  here John, Mark returns to Jerusalem

  1. Pisidian Antioch (Acts 13:14)
  2. Iconium (Acts 13:51)
  3. Lystra (Acts 14:8)

Paul was stoned here.

  1. Derbe (Acts 14:21)

From here returns to Antioch in Syriah.

 This week on YouTube:


1. Beware When prayer becomes a difficult thing for you.
2. Beware When fasting is becoming a history in your spiritual timetable.
3. Beware When you no longer enjoy reading the word of God.
4. Beware When attending church programme is becoming a burden rather than a blessing for you.
5. Beware When living a life of holiness is appearing like extremism.
6. Beware When sinful living becomes a lifestyle in the name of grace.
7. Beware When you crave for earthly things rather than the things of God.
8. Beware When waking up in the night to pray is becoming a thing of the past.
9. Beware brethren, when your heart no longer desires to see the Lord Jesus one day.
10. Beware when you eat more than pray
11. Beware when you no longer share the word with others.
12. Beware When u start diluting the preaching Word of God to keep people around you.
13.  Beware When you spend more time on Facebook, whatsapp, twitter, and internet. These things become idols and take the place of God.
14. Beware when you are very spiritual outside but inside full of spiritual dryness..
15. Beware when you have more carnal friends than spiritual friends..
16. Beware When you ignore messages such as these.
Beware of all these, brethren. Satan isn’t resting. We too must be vigilant.

Lets prepare, Jesus is coming soon to take those who are eagerly waiting for him.




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Faithfulness of a Father 

​This brought tears down my eyes this morning…its a good read.
God is Faithful! – The Best Piece I’ve Read This Year!
In the country of Armenia, in 1988, Samuel and Danielle sent their young son, Armand, off to school. Samuel squatted before his son and looked him in the eye. “Have a good day at school, and remember, no matter what, I’ll always be there for you.” They hugged and the boy ran off to school.
Hours later, a powerful earthquake rocked the area. In the midst of the pandemonium, Samuel and Danielle tried to discover what happened to their son but they couldn’t get any information. The radio announced that there were thousands of casualties.  Samuel then grabbed his coat and headed for the schoolyard. When he reached the area, what he saw brought tears to his eyes. Armand’s school was a pile of debris. Other parents were standing around crying.
Samuel found the place where Armand’s classroom used to be and began pulling a broken beam off the pile of rubble.  He then grabbed a rock and put it to the side, and then grabbed another one.
One of the parents looking on asked, “What are you doing?”   “Digging for my son,” Samuel answered. The man then said, “You’re just going to make things worse! The building is unstable,” and tried to pull Samuel away from his work.
Samuel just kept working. As time wore on, one by one, the other parents left. Then a worker tried to pull Samuel away from the rubble.  Samuel looked at him and said, “Won’t you help me?”   The worker left and Samuel kept digging.
All through the night and into the next day, Samuel continued digging.  Parents placed flowers and pictures of their children on the ruins.  But, Samuel just kept working.  He picked up a beam and pushed it out of the way when he heard a faint cry. “Help! Help!”  Samuel listened but didn’t hear anything again.  Then he heard a muffled voice, “Papa?”
Samuel began to dig furiously.  Finally he could see his son.  “Come on out, son!” he said with relief.

“No,” Armand said.  “Let the other kids come out first because I know you’ll get me.”  Child after child emerged until, finally, little Armand appeared.  Samuel took him in his arms and Armand said, “I told the other kids not to worry because you told me that you’d always be there for me!”
Fourteen children were saved that day because one father was faithful.
How much more faithful is our heavenly Father!  Whether trapped by fallen debris or ensnared by life’s hardships and struggles, we are never cut off from God’s faithfulness.  He is true to His character.  He is reliable and trustworthy and can always be counted on.
Deuteronomy 7:9 “Know therefore that the Lord your God is God; He is the faithful God, keeping His covenant of love to a thousand generations…”
1 Corinthians 1:9 – God, who has called you into fellowship with his Son Jesus Christ our Lord, is faithful. 
Psalm 37:28, “For the Lord loves the just and will not forsake his faithful ones. They will be protected forever” Keep trusting God to the end. Don’t break by reading alone, you might be encouraging someone.👍👍👍

Learn to Listen 

​Last  week  l  went  to  a  restaurant,  l saw  there  was  a WiFi  service,  so  l  asked  for  password,  *the waitress  told  me eat  first ,* so  l  placed  my  order, After  eating  l asked  again  for password  and  again  she  told  me *eat  first,* feeling frustrate  again  l ordered  black coffee, after drinking , again  *l asked  for password ,* They  told  me  *eat first..* Then  angry  *l  asked  the restaurant  manager  for  the password.*  He replied  *eat  first,* before  l  was  about to  explode,  *l  finally  saw  a  sign  showing  WiFi password* …” EAT FIRST”. 

*LESSON :*  This  shows  that  most  of  us  we  are  waiting  for  an answer  from  God after  we  have prayed  but  *we  don’t  listen  to  what  God  is  saying.*  At  times  the  Lord  is  showing  us  an  open  door  but  we keep  asking  for direction  *instead  of  looking  at  the one  door  that  is open.

God…. pls  guide  us  to know  how  to  get answers to  our prayers  from  you.


The Importance of Jesus Baptism 

Had Jesus any need of baptism as He was innocent and sinless! Let’s see why Jesus was baptised.

1. In baptism Jesus was identifying Himself with the sinners, to save the mankind through His death. He had to represent the whole humanity.

2. The baptism of Jesus was a shadow of His death and resurrection which was to follow.

3. Jesus became obedient even to the death of the cross for the sake of human salvation. Jesus, through baptism, was demonstrating His implicit obedience Hebrews 10:9. That’s why the Heavenly Father spoke from Heaven: “He is my beloved son in whom I am well pleased”.

4. Jesus set an example for us to follow. Jesus identified Himself with humanity in baptism whereas we come into union with His death and resurrection through baptism Romans 6:4,5. If Jesus showed His obedience to God through baptism, we must also demonstrate our obedience to God through baptism. But we have to bear one thing in mind that Jesus’ baptism is different from ours.


​Different Kinds of Faith

1. Great Faith – Matt. 8:10-28

2. Weak Faith – Rom. 14:1

3. Little Faith – Luke 12:28

4. Saving Faith – Eph. 2:8

5. Healing Faith – Mark 10:52

6. Dead Faith – James 2:17, 26

7. Strong Faith – Rom. 4:20-21

8. Rich Faith – James 2:5

9. Mustard Seed Faith – Matt. 17:20

10. Overcoming Faith – 1 John 5:4

11. Growing Faith – 2 Thess. 1:3

12. Creative Faith – Heb. 11:3

13. Praying Faith – James 5:14-15

14. Tried Faith – 1 Peter 1:7

15. Measure of Faith – Rom. 12:3

16. Justifying Faith – Rom. 5:1

17. Perfect Faith – James 2:22

18. Word of Faith – Rom. 10:8

19. Purifying Faith – Acts 15:8-9

20. Sanctifying Faith – Acts 26:18

21. Spirit of Faith – 2 Cor. 4:13

22. Walk of Faith – 2 Cor. 5:7

23. Shield of Faith – Eph. 6:16

24. Breastplate of Faith – 1 Thess. 5:8

25. Unity of Faith – Eph. 4:13

26. Steadfast Faith – Col. 2:5

27. Gift of Faith – 1 Cor. 12:9

28. Unfeigned Faith – 2 Tim. 1:5

29. No Faith – Matt. 4:40

30. Visible Faith – Matt. 9:2

31. Unfailing Faith – Luke 22:32

32. Full of Faith – Acts 6:5

33. Door of Faith – Acts 14:27

34. Faith that is spoken about – Rom. 1:8

35. Mutual Faith – Rom. 1:12

36. Faith to Faith – Rom. 1:17

37. Living by Faith – Rom. 1:17

38. Law of Faith – Rom. 3:27

39. Faith that gives one access – Rom. 5:2

40. Speaking Faith – Rom. 10:6

41. Standing Faith – Rom. 11:20

42. House of Faith – Gal. 6:10

43. One Faith – Eph. 4:5

44. Grounded Faith – Col. 1:23

45. Work of Faith – 1 Thess. 1:3

46. First Faith – 1. Tim. 5:12

47. Fight of Faith – 2 Tim. 1:5

48. Keeping Faith – 2 Tim. 4:7

49. Common Faith – Titus 1:4

50. Sound Faith – Titus 2:2

51. Effectual Faith – Phil. 1:6

52. Rich Faith – James 2:12

53. Precious Faith – 2 Peter 1:1

54. Holy Faith – Jude 20